Dinner, to allow his daughter to a colleague that year ten thousand multivariate noble kindergarten, every semester I heard very surprised, remind him: "each people who live in this world are blessed to live, do we fall, don't put the children hit the merits in advance with! Ten thousand multivariate one semester, that is the blessing of children hit newspaper! To save her, use in the future!"

A lot of people have a lot of mistakes the education of the child and his father's pitfalls, so for this article, so as to derive some.

Everyone can live in this world, because he was blessed. F the exhausted, regardless of ordinary people, or the Kings and princes, will be final.

So many rich people, from an early age for children to eat the best, the best and the best schools, the children grow up, everything is not equal to idea, also infected with all sorts of bad habits, soon due to various reasons, degenerate even after death, death to black people. This kind of phenomenon, the society abound. The reason is simple: parents help children ran out of the merits in advance.

Don't be too good, eat health.

Wear not too good, can warm.

Use need not too good, safe.

Not too good, can let the heart quiet.

Schools don't have to be too expensive, the teacher has learned and moral character.

Don't be too beautiful, marry a wife can filial piety in-laws, living.

Marry the husband don't too rich and too handsome, can support a family, don't dye vices, take good care of yourself, has a kind heart.

QiuShi learn, do not have to be big end of the living Buddha, also not necessarily can live ocean's flying dun land, can do not have to be more youth forever living immortal, as long as he is higher than your current virtue and learning, can for the teacher.

Many great ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign celebrities all said: "when he was young, my parents gave me the greatest asset is poor!"

"Mencius" cloud: "the day he or she will drop has, will frustrates, like exercising."

As the cloud: "the poor children early charge."

In today's material rich society, it is impossible for me to call you to poor to force children to sensible, early early aspire to, and take charge. However, you must let the children know that early, your hard-earned money a cent.

Let the child in the summer and winter vacation experience life, let the child go to great share housework, know and moral character and personality is the precious wealth of life on the road in the future. Is it possible to study hard, only in this way, the child is not bad friend, don't dye vices.

If his stick in your hands all day long, he has the little emperors, that's just folded his blessing.

One to eight years old, major education manners, cultivation of virtue.

What is etiquette?

See, for example, respect teachers teachers to say hello. Eat tea don't waste water, such as these, should discipline since childhood.

The cultivation of virtue, try diplomatic etiquette, will affect the success or failure of the life. But knowledge is not should be in education of this period of time.

If one to eight years old to teach too much cultural knowledge, will make his soul in the future, any interest in learning, wet behind the ears in the future, its longevity. If a person has a mind enriched by books, but if sick, that how to benefit sentient beings, benefit society?

Child after the age of eight, and then let him to learn the basic thing in the world of learning.

After 16 years old, fine solid warm blood, and the sanbao enrichment, four, five zang-organs antai, best after bone marrow is full of learning is to learn the world must not is late.

If I was spoiled, eat good is good, the sweat out, not bask in the sun, that is a fold of his live! I hope you can understand the truth.

Parents should give additional 】 【 and children every day to chat

American education network reported that the parents to the child never counselling homework, is back with children about ten minutes a day, only about four questions, completes his family education:

1. The school has what good? Survey values;

2. You have a good performance today? Is a positive guidance;

3. What good harvest today? To consolidate what they have learned;

4. Do you have anything to help mom and dad? Distinguish responsibility. What you should do, don't worry.

You what role 】 【 child frustrated

To help him solve the problem and prevent problems? It is the nanny.

Reprimand angrily denounced, nagging criticism? That was a tyrant.

To help him find excuses and other responsible? It is toxic.

Help him to see the truth, find the "what did I do wrong, how should I adjust?"? That is really the first-class coach.

Always remember: all "what others do wrong" type of answer, don't let the children to grow up!