Zuo Zongtang once said that:
In order to live a good life, one must remember three things: to carry things, to cause less trouble, and not to be afraid of things.
01 can carry things, is courage!
In this life, no matter who, there will always be big or small obstacles, more or less to bear some pressure, but some people encounter things, bite their teeth, carry them with tears, and some people are crushed.
There is no shortage of things that will turn your world upside down. What matters is whether you can carry them.
Writer Yu Hua said: There are many excellent people in the younger generation in China, but few can resist it.
What is carrying a load?
It is not evasive, not easy to give up, meet difficulties, grit your teeth to find ways to overcome difficulties, even if they fail, they have the courage to start from scratch.
Like a 67-year-old bereaved girl, 71-year-old sentenced to life, 74-year-old returned to the deep mountains when planting trees Chu Shijian.
As a former Chinese tobacco king, he was elected as the "top ten reformers" in the country. After that, he was deprived of everything because of economic problems and was deeply in prison.
Ordinary people suffer from such a blow, will certainly be discouraged, the remaining life.
However, he was not overwhelmed by fate. He contracted 2400 acres of wasteland at the age of 74 and planted fruit trees. Later, he sold more than 100 million oranges.
A person who can carry things is like a big tree. After four seasons of wind and rain, he still stands up and becomes more and more attractive.
02 Less trouble, is cautious!
There is an old saying in China: Heaven forgives wrongdoers, but self-made wrongdoers cannot live!
Many times, people encounter more than natural disasters, but man-made disasters, often because of a temporary mood, and eventually lead to irreparable catastrophe, regret beyond reach.
Like a news I saw on the Internet today.
On February 21, at a bus stop at the entrance of a residential district in Shanghai, a young woman was waiting for a bus. She did not obey the rules and order and jumped in the queue with impunity.
At this time, a grandfather beside her kindly reminded her to observe public order.
When the woman listened, she not only remained unchanged, but also called her husband and beat him up. After that, her anger disappeared.
But the uncle was broken into a lumbar vertebral compression fracture and hospitalized. Her husband was also taken away by the police.
Faced with reporters'footage, the woman regretted and fell on her knees, saying that her husband was the only economic pillar in the family, and that she had a heart attack. The children in the family were still young and needed to be nurtured, begging for forgiveness from the grandfather.
We say that if she does not cause trouble, she will have something to hate. If she did not cause trouble, how could she get into trouble?
If you want to succeed in life, you need to make fewer troubles and do your part to ensure peace and security.
03 Don't be afraid of things. It's courage!
Life is changeable. Everyone has a chance to encounter something.
Wang Wei, the poet, said, "Go to the poorest place and sit and watch the clouds rise."
Don't be afraid or panic when you encounter difficulties. After all, there must be a road before the mountain. When the boat arrives at the bridge, it will be straight. There are no obstacles that can't be overcome or things that can't be solved. If you can't solve them now, there will always be a day to solve them.
Since we exist in this world, we should believe that we have the ability to survive, and those survival skills are deeply buried in our blood through the accumulation of generations.
What we have to do is to believe in ourselves, that we can overcome difficulties and solve any problems.
Many times, we lose not to difficulties, but to ourselves.
It's like the song "I'm not afraid of being blocked by tens of millions of people, I'm afraid of surrendering myself."
Don't be afraid to face things bravely, just like Nietzsche said: those who can't kill us will make us stronger in the end.
People's life, will encounter many things, their own things, other people's things, God's things.
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